Don’t Lose Hope

I read this beautiful piece recently and instantly wanted to share it with as many people as possible who are looking for a new relationship in their life.

Someone somewhere is looking for

The exact same love that you have to offer.

The exact same love that the one who hurt you

Did not appreciate.

Don’t lose hope.  And don’t settle.

The most beautiful love stories are those

That come after you realise what you deserve

And you actually finally get it.

You deserve someone who loves your way of love.

Someone who loves you.


Najwa Zebian

Spiritual protection

One of the most frequent questions I am asked as a Medium is ‘How do I protect myself from negative energy?’ Well, there are several different ways to do this, but let me give you some simple, but very effective ways:

As you can see from the picture, Archangel Michael is a very strong light in the Angelic field, shining his light of truth, wisdom and strength around us whenever we ask him to do so.

The first Angel created by God, Michael is the leader of all the Archangels and is the overseer of protection, courage, strength, truth and integrity. Michael protects us physically, emotionally and psychically. He also oversees the lightworker’s life purpose.

His chief function is to rid the earth and its inhabitants of the toxins associated with fear.

Michael carries a flaming sword that he uses to cut through etheric cords and protects us from Satan and negative entities. When he is around you may see sparkles or flashes of bright blue or purple light. I often see these sparkles of blue light as I go to sleep. They are very comforting, often manifesting themselves in clusters of blue, sparkling dots.

Call upon Michael if you find yourself under psychic attack or if you feel you lack commitment, motivation and dedication to your beliefs, courage, direction, energy vitality, self-esteem, or worthiness. He is always there to help us all. Never feel you are taking him away from someone more deserving than you; he has plenty of strength and energy to go around!

So, call in Archangel Michael, asking him to put you in a bubble of white light to protect you from all forms of negativity as you go thru your day. Ask him to place a mirror in front of you to act as a shield. When poison arrows of negativity are fired at you by someone, they will be reflected right back at the person who fired them.

You may think this sounds crazy, but I have an example to share with you of a 14 year-old girl who was being bullied by a group of girls at her school. It had become so bad that she said she would try anything; hence the agreement to try the ‘crazy idea from her Mum’s friend Lynda Ellen’! The next day as the nasty comments started to be shouted at her across the playground, instead of turning away, she turned to face them with her mirror of protection safely in place, and the white light surrounding her. Sure enough, they suddenly stopped shouting and drifted away from her. She was amazed; she couldn’t believe what she was seeing! They never bothered her again.

There are hundreds of examples of Protection working in this way. Do give it a try. I do mine after I have brushed my teeth in the morning, as part of my daily routine. I also include my personal possessions and my family in the request for Protection. You could also ask for the windows and doors of your house to be protected if you live alone or feel vulnerable.

Space Clearance – DIY

Hi Everyone!

As we draw closer to the Christmas holidays, many of us are looking forward to entertaining family and friends at home. To prepare our homes to look their very best, we like to adorn our homes (inside and out) with Christmas decorations to create a wonderful atmosphere in which to enjoy this special time.

However, when cleaning our homes before we decorate, why not give your environment an energy clean as well – this will really make a difference to the ‘feeling’ of your whole living space. Family, friends and guests will all notice ‘something different’ in a good way. “Wow, have you redecorated since we last came?”, “It feels extra special in here this year”, and “What have you done differently this year, it feels really good” are all comments that I have heard in previous years when my clients have carried out a Space Clearance in their home, or even in the office!

I like to keep things simple and straightforward for those of you who would like to have a go at creating a fresh atmosphere in whatever surroundings you feel would benefit from a ‘shake up’! Please make sure you clean your house before you start the energy clean. The cleaner the house the better, so perhaps clean the house over a few days and do your ‘energy clean’ last.

First of all you will need to place a black, yes black, not dark red or brown, tea light in each room. You can put 2 or 3 on each floor of your house if you have a large home, with just one on each landing. Black tea lights can be bought on line quite cheaply. Please do not use black candles as they take too long to burn down. The tea lights will absorb all the negative energy in your house, just don’t forget to open all the internal doors as we want the energy to be able to circulate.

Light the tea light in the first room. Carry out the Sound Clearance (see below), then move into the next room or area, lighting the tea light in that room as you go.

Sound Clearance – you will need to get rid of all those invisible cobwebs of negativity which reside in the corners of each room. To do this, use sound, which is a powerful way to shift heavy energy. The most simple way is to clap a few times at the top, middle and bottom of each corner. I prefer to use a bell or a singing bowl, but you can improvise if you do not have one of these. Hitting a metal saucepan with a metal spoon will do it, but the frequency of the bell or singing bowl is really the best.

I hear you saying “What about my poor animals, or I have elderly relatives who wouldn’t like that” but, I assure you, it is worth it for the end result. My dog is fine with my singing bowl and, if the noise is too much in one room, she takes herself off to another!

The next step is to allow some time for the candles to absorb the energy. About half an hour from the time you finish with your sound clearance should do it. Longer is fine, but you shouldn’t leave the burnt-out candles for longer than an hour. The candles need to be discarded as soon as they are cool to touch. Remember they contain all the ‘nasties’ now, so do NOT throw them into your kitchen bin. They should be placed in a plastic carrier bag; tie the bag, take it OUT OF THE HOUSE and dispose of it in your main bin.

Now replace the love in the house by burning a combination of white and pink candles which will refresh and enhance the atmosphere throughout. I also like to bake a cake at this time, or slow dry the fruits to decorate the garlands or other Christmas decorations. Or do both – it all adds to the ambiance!

If you have a really dreary, cold, dank area or a particularly nasty ‘feeling’ in any room of your home, you can try smudging with Sage. This process is very effective for shifting depressive energy which has built up over time, or as part of the process of moving negative Spirit into the light. (If you are intending to move Spirit, I suggest you hire a professional to do it for you, or at least work under their advice and guidance. You do NOT have to pay a fortune for someone to do this. This type of problem can be dealt with fairly easily in the majority of cases. Television programmes tend to exaggerate this problem for their own purposes!)

I like to burn White Dried Sage in an Abalone Shell which is supported by a china saucer. You only need a few pieces to clear an average 4 bed house. Just light the Sage, blow the flames out gently and, as the smoke rises, use 2 or 3 large feathers tied together to distribute the Sage smoke. I recite special prayers as I move from room to room, for the most effective cleansing process. It is your intention which is the most important thing during this process. Always work for the highest good of those in your home, whether they are still this side of life or crossed over. Treat your home and those residing in it with respect, but make sure they know it is your home and you are in charge. With good intention in your heart and mind, you cannot go wrong.

The reason I do not suggest using Sage in a general house energy clearance is that it doesn’t smell very nice! Effective it may be, but unless you are like me, i.e. working with Spirit every day, you do not need to Sage on a regular basis. When I do it at home, I open up all the cupboards and allow the Sage to drift into every part of the building. When I finish, I thank my Guides and then throw open all the doors and windows to let the fresh air cleanse and refresh my house before anyone else comes in!

You can do a mini session, where you just Sage in a few areas of your house, keeping the smell to a minimum. But again, make sure you air the rooms afterwards. Always good to Sage a day or two before you expect Company!

I hope the above is clear and helpful for those of you wanting to do your own Space Clearance. I do offer this service if you feel you do not want to Sage your own house, but I would suggest you try the above before you call in someone like me. It’s a lovely thing to do as part of a ‘Christmas or Spring Clean’, or for use at any other time of the year or in your office, if you think it’s necessary. I quote individually for this service as buildings vary so much in size and space, but a normal 4 bed modern house is £50, just to give you a guide line.

Wishing you all a Very Happy Christmas for 2018 and a ‘Lighter & Brighter’ New Year! Lynda Ellen xxx



The Brahma game

I Read this extremely well written article the other day and just had to share it with you! It is the work of Henk van Straten, an award-winning writer from the Netherlands.


As I learned only recently, we’re living in the Age of Kali, also known as the Dark Age or the Age of Immorality. Hinduism describes a cycle of four ages, in which Kali Yuga is the fourth and last. It’s an age of decline, which ends when the world – all reality – is destroyed by the god Shiva. Then everything starts over again, brought to life by the god Brahma. But in fact, Brahma and Shiva are one. When Brahma turns his back on you, you see Shiva’s face. Creation always involves destruction.

In this sense, it’s all a game. And it’s often been described that way, for instance by British philosopher Alan Watts. Brahma is playing a game with himself, experiencing himself through the eyes and ears of all living things. Yet despite his love of hide-and-seek, he is fundamentally one. That means we too – you and I – are Brahma. We are his enjoyment.

Through us, he experiences suffering, and love, and sex, and hunger, and pleasure, and excitement. Then, when he starts to get bored, his Shiva manifestation sweeps everything off the table, and the game starts over again.

I don’t know why, exactly, but I find this myth comforting. It puts everything in a more playful light: our personal suffering, but also the suffering of the world and the time in which we live. Even Donald Trump is a game that Brahma is playing. The god is using him too as a plaything, like a child with a carnival mask.

At the same time, Brahma is not the creator in the same sense as the Christian god. There is no separation between Brahma the god and the humans that he created. We are the god, we are Brahma. He (or she, of course) is a god with countless arms and eyes, and they’re our arms and eyes.

That means we don’t have to bow down to some higher power, something mightier than we are. Unless you’d like to bow to the Great All, the Unknowable, the cosmic energy that you are. Are, not have. There’s nothing occult about that. It’s consistent with the science of quantum mechanics.

Of course, the idea that we live at the end of times is timeless. It always feels as if we’re in the Kali Yuga. So don’t take that too seriously either. Or go ahead and take it seriously if you like, it doesn’t matter. Either way, Brahma will be equally delighted.

Karma States That What You Sow Is What You Reap

The basic law of Karma states that what you sow is what you reap. What you put out will come back to you. You may think that there are many people in the world that seem to get away with everything. That is not so.  No one does. The law of Karma extends over many lifetimes.  It may appear that someone who has been deliberately harmful or hurtful to someone else, has got away it – this will not happen. The soul continues to reincarnate into another physical body and will be confronted by the same situation, or similar, to that they put the person through before. They will experience the pain and suffering themselves until lessons are learned. The only way the karmic chain can be broken is by learning forgiveness. There are different levels of Karma – what we have just discussed is Personal Karma – that is, what we have set in motion with the power of our own consciousness. The second type of Karma is Group Karma. When we incarnate into this world we are born into groups based on our skin colour, religious affiliation and so on.  When a person is born into a black body, say in the USA, he or she has to deal with racism and prejudice, not because a black body is inferior to a white body, but because of the low level of spiritual consciousness of so many souls on this plane.  A person in a black body or in a body of any other minority will take on the karmic lessons of that group. Another type of Karma is National Karma.  We are born into a certain country and are then indoctrinated with its egotistical identifications, for example if there was a nuclear war between China and the USA, we would be caught up in National Karma. There is also Planetary Karma.  Earth has certain unique lessons that are different from those on other planets. In a way all Karma could be called personal Karma, because our soul decides before we incarnate what our skin colour should be, who our families are, which religion and country we should grow up in etc. Our soul decides the lessons we must learn, it is all designed to help us grow spiritually and eventually to ascend. So remember, what you give out you will get back.  If you give out pain and suffering it will come back to you, if not in this lifetime then in your next. If on the other hand you give out love and compassion, it will come to you ten fold in this lifetime and beyond. When you have completed 51% of your Karma your mission is revealed and you are freed from the wheel of re-birth, if this is your wish. Taken from the book:  A Beginners Guide to the Path of Ascension by Dr. Joshua David Stone

Creating the new you!


Life Isn’t About Finding Yourself, Life is About Creating Yourself

We all experience times in our lives when we know we are at a cross-roads.

Conscious, deliberate self-empowerment is essential to be able to live a joyful life. Laws of attraction are very strong; so understanding how to activate the energy surrounding you is key.  Esther and Jerry Hicks have written some great books about this subject such as Ask and It is Given, The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent, The Law of Attraction and The Astonishing Power of Emotions. There are, of course, CDs, DVDs and a website to accompany the above:

Another way to help you to go forward in life is to watch, yes WATCH, the DVD of The Secret. I know there is a little paperback book, but this is meant as reference only AFTER you have watched the DVD. You really need the visual impact of the DVD first. It is divided into sections, each one about a totally different real-life experience. You decide which of these scenarios applies or appeals to you, and then act upon it.  I don’t want to give too much away as it’s such an amazing film, but either watch it on your own with a glass of your favourite tipple (preferably a bottle!), a box of chocs and a box of tissues, or with a group of very good friends! It is happy, sad, amazing, thought provoking, long (about 10 sections) and life changing!

I recommend the section with The Architect and his Young Son. I did the pin board after watching this and, I promise you, got everything off it within 2 years (except that I haven’t written a book yet, but maybe Blogging counts?)

Another great tool to help you on your new pathway is the fantastic book by Louise Hay – You Can Heal Your Life.  I have personally used this book twice in my life to help me to survive – literally.  Follow the guidance and affirmations, being open to the concept of being brutally honest with yourself at all times.  Some of this does not come easily, don’t worry, just skip to the next section.  You will go back and re-read when you are ready. Take your time with it.  Some days you will want to read quite a lot, other days a couple of paragraphs, or just pick another affirmation to practice.  Just do what you can until you reach a point where it all seems to come together and you really notice improvement in your every day life.

Another more recent book which comes highly recommended is ‘Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life’ by the amazing Wayne Dyer.  Both these books are available on Hay House Publishing UK or Amazon.  I am sure I will mention Hay House in other Blogs as it is a fount of knowledge, hosting so many Spiritual tools written and recorded by the best in the World. There is something on every subject for everyone.  Metaphysics by Greg Braden, How To Live With and Cure Yourself of Cancer by Chris Wark, Feng Shui, Oracle Cards by Doreen Virtue, the list goes on and on . . .

Many of the videos, audio books and pod casts are free – have a look. What have you got to lose – it may just change your life for the better!

Finally, I would like to say that I agree with Esther and Jerry Hicks as I quote the following :

There are as many different worlds as there are perceivers, Beings, or individuals.  You are not here to create one world where everyone is the same, wanting and getting the same.

You are here to be that which YOU want to be while you allow all others to be that which THEY want to be.

Wishing you an astonishing and bountiful journey – You Can Do It!      Lynda Ellen xx



I am frequently asked ‘What happens in a Reading?’

Well, all Readings are different, just as all people are different.

Having said that, the structure of my Readings is usually the same, with one or two deviations if I am guided to do so!

We start by turning on your phone to Voice Recorder or Voice Memo – very important. There is far too much information for you to remember. Some of it you may not know. You may need to verify the validations given by asking a friend or family member. Also, isn’t it lovely to sit quietly at home afterwards and listen to the content of the Reading?

I start by asking you to shuffle a set of Tarot cards to put your energy on the cards, as opposed to the last person. Whilst you are doing that, I ‘tune in’ to your loved ones in Spirit; I do not conjure them up as some people think – you bring them with you and, hopefully, take them home with you afterwards!

I then ask you just to say ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ as I tell you who is stepping forward to communicate with you, and I give certain facts to validate that it is the person I say I have with me. I may describe how they passed, their personality, a fond memory they have of you, a first letter of a Christian name relating to them, someone they are with in Spirit or someone they want to acknowledge this side of life. Names and numbers do come thru, but not always. However, there is always enough so that you know who is there for you and why.

Once we have established who is there for you, they stick around to help with the Directional Reading – which is the next part of your experience. I ask you to choose 9 cards from your pack, then Read those for you in a general sense of why you have come for this Reading  and what they are going to talk about with you.

Next, I do 3 further spreads of cards from another pack of Tarot which only I handle. These cards enable me to go deeper and give more details.  During this time you can ask questions or stop me if you need to ask more about anything. There is a lot of information given; it gradually goes deeper and builds rather like a soap opera! Another reason why it is so important to record your Reading.

The messages they give are for your highest good, or the good of someone they want you to convey them to.  If anything negative is given, it is to give you a chance to change it or make it right in some way. I never talk about a specific death – in fact, if you ever go to  a Medium and they start predicting death, you should walk out and not pay. Some people want to know when someone is going to die – it is not my job to predict death. I use my judgement in rare cases to help clients who are dealing with a long suffering family member, but only if it is shown as the right thing to do.

My job is to show the positive and negative pathways in life to help clients make decisions. Again, it is not my job to make decisions for you. Life is a school room and we have decisions and choices to make as we go on our journey.

Finally I give time at the end to ask questions. Usually my client looks at me in a rather stunned way and says  ‘I cant think of anything . . there has been so much . .  I need to take it all in!’  Again, explaining why it is important to have that recording.

I do not recommend writing things down. It slows down the whole process and makes it very confusing for me as my guides are racing ahead with 3 things, whilst you are still writing down the first!!

Having said that, some Mediums are very comfortable with their client taking notes, we are all different. For me it is all about the two of us in an energy circle which is connected to those in Spirit, so I have to have your energy in sinc with mine as we go thru the Reading.  This does not mean I have to see you, just be connected with you and have your full attention.  I often Read by Skype, Facetime or Phone which validates that this is all about an energy connection, not me Reading your body language or mind. Indeed, some of the facts given are not always known by my client, they have to go to someone else for validation, or look at a family tree.

The structure of a Reading can vary in the following way: if a person in Spirit advises me to ‘do the numbers’ for my client. I will then stop and go to my box to get pen and paper to begin a Numerology analysis of the people I am talking about. This can be very helpful to find out more about personalities, situations and compatibility.

If you want to bring a ring, watch or something personal connected to a loved one in Spirit, that’s fine but not necessary. I can Read the item – I’ve even Read a pair of slippers before now!

Sometimes the first part of a Reading where I connect to Spirit can be brief, sometimes it can take up half the Reading! It just depends who comes through and what they have to say. If my client wants a Directional Reading only in which he or she just needs to know about their present and future, that’s fine, we can do that. My guides are asked to help with this type of Reading and, although I may be connecting with your people on the other side, I will not tell you about it if u don’t want to know.

I am also a Healer and Teacher. So, during a Reading with me you will often get medical information about yourself or those close to you. I am not medically trained, but I have a Guide who is very reliable when it comes to this sort of thing. He has been known to save lives on occasion.

I will also offer advice and guidance in a practical sense if they show me something in my frame of reference which has happened to me in the past. This may be something as straightforward as giving you the name and phone number of a professional person you need to consult.  Again, from the feedback I receive, this type of guidance can prove to be extremely helpful and life changing.

I hope this Blog helps to answer your questions about coming for a Reading and what to expect. If you have any further queries, please get in touch by phone, e-mail, messenger etc. and I will be happy to try to answer them. Having a Reading is a positive step forward in your life – we all need some guidance now and then, or validation that the choices and decisions we are making are the right ones!

Your loved ones in Spirit are always around you – they do enjoy trying to help us as we go through our journey this side of life. You will not exhaust them, disturb them or worry them if you have a Reading. They will only step forward if it is the right time and they feel qualified to help you with what is going on.  It is an honour and pleasure for me to act as the conduit between you and them. Enjoy!!

Best Wishes for now and the future – Lynda Ellen